Best route is to use ChinaLoveCupid
I couldn’t disagree more with you about Thailand and was never “disappointed”. I never had a problem meeting and sleeping with girls there. As a white tourist in my late forties I never go without attention, and girls 18-50 are easy targets. – Age difference doesn’t mater at all. . Pattaya is a dirty city but it’s loaded with both real Thai girls looking for a husband and prostitutes. What’s always worked for me is “treat a lady like a whore, and a whore like a lady.” Seriously, I’ve banged so many hookers for free by just pretending to be interested in a long term relationship with them. I’ve also banged a lot or good middle class girls I meet online (ThaiFriendly) including a good number of virgins. Seriously, few things in life are better than banging a 18-21 year old Thai beauty for her first time! Bangkok is awesome, as Match is Hua Hin, and Cha-Am. I agree though that Phuket isn’t that great for meeting women – although the southern part of the island is awesome for beaches and relaxing vacation. Chiang Mai and Chiang Rai are also kind of a bust for picking up, but even there I’ve had luck occasionally. I speak Thai a good bit, but sometimes it’s best to pretend I can’t because many of them dislike expats. Maybe it’s just the girls I attract because I’m white, but from my experience they do not like darker skinned farang (foreigners) like hispanic, Arab and especially black. Most Thai gils dream of having a light skinned baby. China has also been very very good to me and I’ve had a lot of success in Shanghai, Hainan, and Nanning.
I lived in Shanghai for this e things like wi-fi and iphones werent even out yet. People were getting into hooking up online and it went through a boom. It is still a very good way to hook up with women in Shanghai. I have banged many women from this website. The key is to play the little game about how good the country is and that you are looking for a serious relationship / marriage etc. Most women who use this site have that as their preference but it does not mean exactly that if you charm them the right way. If you are actually looking for a Chinese wife though then it is perfect dating site with a lot of women as paying members that can be contacted. However a lot of women have been on this site for years and still no takers. You will get tons of opportunities if you upgrade for just one months membership and then initiate the “do you have wechat” approach. Chinalovecupid for the first port of call and create a good profile and DO NOT say you are an English teacher. It is considered a naff job to have in China these days. Best one is engineering. Also Chinese women seem to like Germany so it might pay you to even say you are German if you are just interested in playing the field. If you upgrade as a member and actually live in the same area as the girls you are looking for you will get laid within a week using that website.
These have not been replaced so you are basically left with Chinalovecupid or Asian Dating
It used to be a lot easier for online hookups when craigslist and another site called enjoyshanghai were functional. Infact enjoyshanghai was by far the easiest way to hook up in Shanghai for years.